Comments on: The Code of Silence http://julieanndunn.net/2008/11/the-code-of-silence/ ...manage the flow and you'll be able to weather any storm... Wed, 21 Jan 2009 03:15:27 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Melody Jolly http://julieanndunn.net/2008/11/the-code-of-silence/comment-page-1/#comment-25 Melody Jolly Fri, 21 Nov 2008 21:04:37 +0000 http://julieanndunn.net/?p=129#comment-25 I have long said that a household that splits its finances between "his" and "hers" is a household destined to split at some point. If you can't trust a person enough to share a singular "wealth pool" with them, then why are you married to them at all? Not telling someone about your past history with money is like withholding a vital health statistic or pretending to be someone else. You shouldn't do it. I have long said that a household that splits its finances between “his” and “hers” is a household destined to split at some point. If you can’t trust a person enough to share a singular “wealth pool” with them, then why are you married to them at all?

Not telling someone about your past history with money is like withholding a vital health statistic or pretending to be someone else. You shouldn’t do it.

]]> By: Heartsong http://julieanndunn.net/2008/11/the-code-of-silence/comment-page-1/#comment-23 Heartsong Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:25:59 +0000 http://julieanndunn.net/?p=129#comment-23 Wisdom. Pure wisdom. Wisdom. Pure wisdom.

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